Many people say “My dog is too stubborn to ride in the car,” but dogs aren’t being stubborn for no reason. Dogs love to explore new places and often enjoy joining us on trips—so if they’re refusing, there’s usually something behind it. Here are the real reasons your dog might resist car rides—and what you can do about them.
1. fear and anxiety that is either based on a lack of experience or bad prior experience
Some dogs are genuinely afraid of riding in the car, especially if they were never taught to feel safe there. This fear can come from:
- Lack of socialization: If they weren’t exposed to car rides as puppies, the car can feel strange and overwhelming.
- Bad experiences: Maybe they were left alone in a parked car and panicked, or they had a bumpy, scary ride.
- Negative associations: If the only time they get in the car is for something unpleasant—like going to the vet or groomer—they may resist it entirely.
Signs of fear:
- Cowering, lowering their body.
- Tucked tail, pinned-back ears.
- Avoiding the car, running away when you approach it.
- Shivering, especially in small or sensitive dogs.
- Looking at you with a distressed or “miserable” expression.
What to do:
- Don’t force them in. Instead, break it into small, positive steps:
- Sit with them in the parked car while giving treats or playing a game.
- Practice getting in and out of the car with rewards, no driving yet.
- Take very short, calm rides at first—just a few minutes.
- Gradually build up to longer trips.
- Make sure the car leads to fun places too—not only to the vet!
If your dog seems afraid of the outdoors in general—very timid or panicky even outside the house—address those fears first. The car won’t feel safe if the world outside already feels threatening.
2. health issues and undiagnosed pain
Another common reason dogs resist car rides is physical discomfort. They may not be afraid of the car itself but struggle to get in or out, especially if they’re older or injured.
Things to watch for:
- A dog that used to jump in happily but now hesitates.
- Reluctance that developed gradually over time.
- Trouble with stairs or getting onto furniture at home (a clue that it’s not just the car).
What to do:
- Visit your veterinarian to check for orthopedic pain, arthritis, or other age-related issues.
- Use a ramp or step to make entry easier.
- For small dogs, lift them gently into the car in a way that doesn’t hurt them.
- Make sure the ride itself is comfortable: use supportive bedding or crates if needed.
Remember, dogs don’t become “stubborn” out of nowhere. If they suddenly stop wanting to ride, pain is a likely cause.
3. car sickness (motion sickness)
Some dogs aren’t afraid of the car—they get physically sick riding in it. Motion sickness is real and uncomfortable for dogs, just like it is for humans.
Signs of motion sickness:
- Excessive drooling, even if the weather is cool.
- Panting heavily with no heat or stress.
- Very stiff, frozen posture—refusing to lie down or relax.
- Lip licking, repeated yawning.
- Vomiting during or after the ride.
What to do:
- Talk to your veterinarian. They can rule out other issues and suggest treatments.
- There are safe medications for motion sickness in dogs (including some human meds used under vet guidance).
- Avoid self-medicating without professional advice—it’s not safe to guess at doses.
- Try shorter rides first to see if your dog acclimates over time.
If your dog only rides to the vet and always gets sick, consider mixing in very short, positive trips to fun destinations to break the association.
final tip
If you’re not sure whether your dog is afraid, in pain, or car sick, ask a veterinarian or qualified trainer. Don’t assume your dog is being “stubborn” just to annoy you. There’s always a real reason—and with patience, you can help them feel safe and comfortable on car rides again.
If you need help with making your dog enjoy car rides, you can hire me in person in San Francisco or book a remote consultation – worldwide.